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By: Paula van der Werff and Henri\u00ebtte Wiessenberg<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>

About trauma, stored tension, and subconscious reprogramming with PSYCH-K®<\/nobr><\/h2><\/div>

This article is part of a series in which, together with PSYCH-K®<\/nobr> Facilitators, we explore what is truly happening beneath behavior and symptoms.<\/p>\n

From the perspective of PSYCH-K®<\/nobr>, we do not only look at what is visible, such as stress, fatigue, physical symptoms, or relationship tension, but also at the underlying subconscious beliefs that drive behavior, choices, and experience.<\/p>\n

Each article focuses on one specific target group and shows how reprogramming at the subconscious level can create space for sustainable change.<\/p>\n

This article was written in collaboration with Henri\u00ebtte Wiessenberg of praktijk Emerga<\/a>. She works with people who notice that their bodies continue to react negatively to old experiences, even when they rationally know that the past is over.<\/p>\n<\/div>

When You Consciously \u201cKnow\u201d It Is Safe, but Your Body Does Not Believe It<\/h2><\/div>

Your body and brain are speaking two different languages.<\/p>\n

\u201cI know it is over, but I cannot let it go, cannot resolve it. It keeps lingering, circling around in my head. My body feels restless and anxious.\u201d<\/p>\n

Henri\u00ebtte hears this often.<\/p>\n

People who notice that their body continues to react negatively to old events are commonly described as \u201csuffering from trauma.\u201d
\nPeople who come to her have often already done quite a lot to process their trauma. They have read about it, talked about it. Sometimes they have followed cognitive therapy. They have gained insight into their triggers. And yet certain situations still evoke a strong physical reaction: a restless stomach, fear, panic, a racing heart, poor sleep, digestive problems, difficulty standing up for themselves and\/or freezing during conflict.
\nExcessive alertness, sometimes even without any clear reason.<\/p>\n

This is not weakness. It is a nervous system that is still living from an earlier assessment of safety. Often, this originated in childhood. The entire system reacts as if there is danger in the present.<\/p>\n

A practical example:<\/em>
\nAnne always reacts very strongly when her manager raises his voice. Just thinking about it gives Anne stomach pain and makes her feel restless.<\/p>\n

In her childhood, Anne experienced unsafety: an aggressive father. Her mother was unable to protect her. As a child, you do not yet have language or context. As a result, you draw conclusions about yourself in an attempt to understand safety. As a child, you do not say: \u201cMy parent is emotionally unsafe.\u201d<\/p>\n

So, at the moment of the childhood trauma, you give meaning to what is happening. You form a conclusion, as an internal, subconscious process. In Anne\u2019s case: \u201cThere is something wrong with me.\u201d \u201cMy feelings are not allowed to exist.\u201d<\/p>\n

This conclusion later becomes an automatic pattern that directs the nervous system and behavior. In Anne\u2019s case: \u201cI do not show emotions.\u201d \u201cI have to be strong.\u201d These subconscious beliefs arise from unsafety. They are not rational, not chosen, and not conscious. They arise out of necessity, in order to survive.<\/p>\n

The conclusion is the original seed. The subconscious belief is the programmed version. Her body continues to react as if the old conclusion is still true.<\/p>\n

We work with the conclusion to understand where it began. And we work with the subconscious belief to change the pattern. Because PSYCH-K®<\/nobr> addresses precisely that subconscious layer.<\/p>\n<\/div>

Trauma Arises When Safety Disappears \u2014 and Continues to Exist as Long as Safety Is Absent<\/h2><\/div>

Trauma is often seen as an event. But it is not. Trauma is primarily a physiological response that could not be completed. Because safety was lost, the body remains stuck in fight, flight and\/or freeze. This unfinished stress response to an event is stored as a sensation in the body, not as words.<\/p>\n

The body remembers what the mind cannot process.<\/p>\n

During trauma, the brain switches into survival mode. As a result, the nervous system moves into fight, flight and\/or freeze. Trauma changes the brain. Trauma memories are implicit and remain stuck in the emotional, limbic brain. They are not stored in the cortex.
\nAs a result, the memories become fragmented, non-linear, chaotic, distorted, and sensory-based.<\/p>\n

Your body responds to your perception: how you experience the event. And old beliefs determine your \u201cbiology.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 Bruce Lipton<\/p>\n

A negative judgment about ourselves and others causes mind and body to become rigid. Restoring contact between body and mind is crucial for optimal processing.<\/p>\n

When the body relaxes and experiences safety, the brain can adopt new beliefs and process the trauma. Body and mind are then aligned.
\nSo, as long as there is no safety, the trauma continues to exist.<\/p>\n<\/div>

Why Talking Is Not Always Enough to Process Trauma<\/h2><\/div>

Talking helps us understand what happened. But trauma is not in the story \u2014 trauma is in the body!<\/p>\n

When an experience was too overwhelming to process, the nervous system switches into survival mode. The body: freezes, tenses, dissociates, and stores the experience as sensation, not as language, and that is exactly why talking alone is not enough.<\/p>\n

1. Trauma Is Stored in the Body, Not in Words
\nDuring a traumatic experience, the part of the brain that regulates language and logic becomes less active. The body takes over.<\/p>\n

What is stored in the cells is the state of the traumatic experience: through heart rate, breathing, muscle tension, reflexes, sensory impressions, and freezing. So it is not the story that is stored, but the state, through sensations.<\/p>\n

That is why someone can say:
\n\u201cI know I am safe\u201d
\n\u2026 while the body reacts as if the danger is still present.<\/p>\n

2. Talking Activates Thinking, Not the Nervous System
\nTalking takes place in the cortex \u2014 the rational brain. Trauma lives in the limbic, emotional system of the brain and in the autonomic nervous system.<\/p>\n

So you cannot resolve trauma in a place where it does not reside.<\/p>\n

Talking can even:<\/p>\n